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>>10865Life's not fair, especially for fujoshi. Post your frustrations and things that are on your mind, no matter how harsh it sounds, about advantages everyone else has that fujoshi don't get.
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>>13712You'll have to out crybully them, so I'd bet that claiming you're trans and it triggered you would be effective. Better if you claim you're mtf, too.
No.13719
>>13708>perky breastsKek if this character was binding they would be droopy. It's obvious when trans is being used just for porn because if they were being 'realistic' then PIV would be painful too due to effects of T. So it really is just stealth het, especially when they put so much effort into describing the tits and vag and how sexy and attractive they are and blah blah blah.
No.13720
>>13708i had this happen to me the other day. i feel you, nonna, it's so fucking disgusting.
No.13721
Every day My Reading Manga falls further away from the light of the pleroma and into the clutches of the demiurge. When they allowed furshit, the bara grew exponentially as did westoid art. Now, every single day there is a cuntboy doujin/original work being uploaded.
It's so fucking insidious and disgusting. I don't think I have ever seen a website fall so far from grace in recent times as MRM. Utterly disgusting. You just know that men and trannies of both flavors are the ones who run that website now.
No.13722
>>13721I am a transformers fan and while normally, I would empathize. Instead, I feel a bit of validation.
Now everyone can feel as bad as I do.
No.13723
>>13721It's incredibly disappointing that the mrm mods are picky about which doujinshis are allowed to be uploaded, but are lenient with the cuntboy shit and barafag patreon slop that shits up the site. What a disappointment, using hentai sites like hitomi and nhentai are more preferable for doujinshi than mrm at this point. I can only pray for an alternative BL exclusive doujinshi site by fujoshi for fujoshi to pop up soon
No.13724
>>13721I'm surprised they haven't been dcma'd by Image or DC comics yet given some of the stuff of theirs that has been posted on mrm.
No.13725
>>13721>>13723I dont care about the furshit generally, but it drives me nuts seeing the weirdest western fetish comics after they removed and purged a lot of the stuff in the shota and doujin tags. Why can't we all eat in peace?
>>13724I have to wonder where their servers are located, since they don't seem to fear DC or Marvel, but small Japanese publishers have bullied them in the past.
No.13726
>>13725>I dont care about the furshit generally,But most of the furshit is westoid and/or bara trash. Come on nonnie, it's not the cute/handsome Japanese furry your find in mythological BLs
No.13727
>>13723> I can only pray for an alternative BL exclusive doujinshi site by fujoshi for fujoshi to pop up soonThere's aarinfantasy, but it's not exactly what you're looking for.
No.13728
>>13726A lot of it is, but I tend to be more a live and let live kind of person when it comes to people's porn habits. I can close my eyes and scroll past some ugly tiger anthros if it means I can still find the things I enjoy too. Sites constantly go up and down so it's a miracle MRM has lasted this long. As I said prior, it bothers me more to see old content removed when some of it is not hosted anywhere else notable.
To be fair though, I do wish it had stuck to being Japanese media only, but maybe that's the monkey's paw part of all this.
No.13729
I wish there was a proper fujo doujin site for uploads, MRM sucks even for specific tags and sadpanda doesn't take kindly to yaoi uploads anyway.
As someone who used to upload to MRM occasionally (and a bunch of my doujins didn't even get accepted too, faggots) I genuinely don't know what they want. What if, yes, I want to read a non-porn fujo doujin? Is that bad? Does it have to be explicit porn? Does it have to be a recent series? I don't understand the criteria.
Fujos barely even upload shit nowadays, zoomers are too lazy to scan and decades old doujins hidden in LJ groups are all dead fucking links.
No.13730
>>13729>Fujos barely even upload shit nowadays, zoomers are too lazy to scan and decades old doujins hidden in LJ groups are all dead fucking links.Mannn, you're right, nona. I need to get off my ass and scan some stuff.
No.13731
>>13730Same. I want to scan in some hardcover doujin too I have
No.13732
>>13729E-hentai allows BL and yaoi doujin uploads, including non-hentai doujins and artbooks. While most of the users upload male-aimed material anything is fair game.
No.13733
>>13729Honestly I would keep uploading on Sadpanda if I were you. Moids will give it low stars of course but once it’s uploaded and imported to all the aggregators it’s basically immortalized.
No.13734
>>13733Yeah I just up there and make peace with the fact that any doujin is going to be immediately downvoted. Though, I think as a result of their tagging system being pretty bad and people not stumbling across it by accident, I find they tend to accumulate a positive score over time from people who are actually looking for the characters and series.
No.13750
I am really sick of fans and sometimes even creators hating on gay shipping under the guise of "protest against ooc".
Yeah, many fan works are ooc or might seem ooc. Nothing new. Strange just how you all never give a shit when it involves women. Even the gay uwu'fication of tumblr still bears more similarity to the original gay character than you average male coomer fanart that turns even the coolest female character into a brainless devote housewife blob with tits that are bigger than the rest of her body. You never see anybody rage over THESE types of ooc pairings.
Let's be real, the answer is just misogyny and conservative gender role obsession. Because men aren't allowed to be seen as sexual objects since that's the women's roles. You can draw Jeanne D'arc or Curie as willing ahegao sex slaves and flood twitter with it and it's still somehow seen as in-character enough to not be commented on. But the second anybody claims that two BBF bros that touch each other's asses and sleep besides each other might have a crush on each other half of the internet is fuming about these toxic, sex-addicted fujos that twist every character to an unrecognizable OC, poison every fandom and can't accept platonic friendships.
It's so obvious and yet most active posters pretend it was rational. I would be fine if they reacted like that both ways but nah, the real issue isn't ooc or shipping, it's that many men consider it threatening that there are people out there that enjoy 2D pixel dudes being the ones getting fucked for once instead of women.
No.13751
>>13750>I am really sick of fans and sometimes even creators hating on gay shipping under the guise of "protest against ooc". You've seen that too? I find this is a common sentiment among Chinese shippers that can barely speak English or male otaku on the spectrum against popular ships, BL, het or otherwise.
No.13752
>>13750It's misogyny + homophobia, both mostly coming from straight men
No.13755
>>13750>creators hating on gay shippingUnless they're getting actual death threats about it they should just shut up. The JP creator attitude towards fujos at times can be refreshing because they understand they are big financial supporters and will make merch catering to their sensibilities and for the most part shut up about any issues they have with yaoi. Meanwhile many American showrunners (except for the Hannibal one, I salute him) really take it personally if they gain a female-majority audience and they have gay ships to the point they're willing to shit on their own show out of spite.
Your mention about men's fanart is interesting because idk if I've seen them interested in transformative work that isn't just aura-farming (as the kids say) or like you said female characters turned to bimbos. I'm sure some have written fanfic too, but a lot of subreddits are old recycled memes, sexy fan art, predictions, complaining etc. which is fine and dandy but it's clear many of them don't enjoy playing in the sandbox like a lot of women do (besides to argue about whose stronger kek) and so their approach to what we do is coming from a completely different place (misogyny). Not to say women don't enjoy those things too but there's more of a balance. I also would like less OOC but you go to these subs and there's no nuance either.
No.13756
>>13755Survivorship bias but the blatantly male-authored fanfics I've seen are either hentai in written-format or autistic AU genfic. Even with gay men the erotica they write is extremely plain and focused on the sensory and appearance (not sure how else to describe the style of writing). As much as "powerscaler son vs shipper daughter" is a meme there's truth to it as the average guy only cares about powerscaling discussion. "What-if's", extending canon or coming up with the scenarios in between canon events is almost entirely a female thing.
No.13757
>>13756>Even with gay men the erotica they write is extremely plain and focused on the sensory and appearance (not sure how else to describe the style of writing).The only thing I've read that was definitely written by a gay man spent a ludicrous amount of time detailing how the characters looked waxed, to the extent that it ended up derailing the plot. It's like when bad sue fic describes the outfits for ten paragraphs.
No.13758
>>13756Yeah reading gay male erotica has helped me understand why some men Write Like That, it's kinda funny it gives me the same feeling of touching my belly button, aka nothing.
>hentai in written-format or autistic AU genficYeah transbians shitting up yuri tags with their god-awful smut (I'll take the autists over them, just please get them out of here) or for things like NGE where the world building's interesting so there's much to do with it. I think older fandom too as like you said when autists tend to cling onto a hobby long enough that's when they'll write those super massive fics but besides that not really.
>extending canon or coming up with the scenarios in between canon eventsReally hate being a fan of the Time Skip for Training/Suffering genre because I love seeing mundane moments and I'm only lucky other female fans see the vision too. Character studies too… why put something in plain text when you could have it from the character's POV? Those were my favorite when I was younger, idk I'm not gonna pretend a lot of fandom isn't shipping but it does still come from a love of the media.
>powerscaling discussionI don't really get this, esp for shit that doesn't follow a formal/consistent power leveling system or for characters whose Whole Thing is being the most powerful ever (Saitama). I would be more interested if they talked about how those characters interact and did a crack AU smh.
No.13762
>>13755Yeah people get angry at women because of fanart but don't realise that it's the only art they see because men barely make fanart to begin with. And most of the stuff they do is hardcore porn that won't just appear in the open twitter, most likely not even at all since it's usually done for money or as doujinshi.
If you read any discussion about a series with male adults and female kids (e.g. Witch Hat, Medalist, Bravern etc) all that the outspoken male fans talk about is how unbelievably pedo the adults are even when the series even when the creator outright despises lolicons and ships the males. It's as ooc as it can be, because unlike most homo it doesn't even have hints like the obsession with each other or blushing. But since it's all just written people ignore it. Instead they browse fanart because it's pretty and get angry at the people who create that fanart for also shipping something.
No.13776
>>13758>I don't really get this, esp for shit that doesn't follow a formal/consistent power leveling system or for characters whose Whole Thing is being the most powerful ever (Saitama).I've been reading Korean series and looking at comments on sites broke my brain because of this shit. Dudes are completely missing entire sections of the plot because they're clinging to an already debunked theory from early chapters on the hopes the MC - in a comedy series about a weak guy mistaken for scary strong - becomes actually OP and starts wiping the floor with everyone for no reason with no consequences. A new series started and the comments immediately flooded with A) Hitler jokes and B) guys trying to weigh up if the MC is more or less powerful than Solo Leveling MC. There's not even powerscaling in this one, it's about gods and folklore. What the fuck are they seeing here that they're incredibly enthusiastic about what they've read so far, but completely bypassed that it's all character exploration and small scale interactions between them and went straight to can man who cooks sweet potatoes and cookies beat Jinwoo in a fight.
>>13762>it's the only art they seeI expected this sentence to end 'because they're blind to the usual defilement of female bodies.' I always assume artists are women in fandom, but I forget on a regular basis that the accounts posting samey big eyed booby arts with soft lighting and OnlyFans ringlight reflections are artists too. I just don't register them.
>pedo talkGod this pisses me off every time. Either they insist the underage girls were purposefully designed for them to drool over and the author knew this, or they act outraged that the adults must be about to "Usagi Drop" the underaged girls when nothing of that nature is ever suggested. Their expectations betray their way of thinking about the opposite sex. By bending a male character to portray him as a pervert they're just molding them into a vessel to act out their fetishes. But it's alright when men do it!
No.13778
>>13776>OnlyFans ringlight reflectionsThis is such a minor thing for me to mention when your entire comment is insightful and has things I agree with/am also confused by (obsessive powerscaling) but I was thinking about this the other day… people's brains are so cooked by the glut of online amateur OnlyFans shit that it's influencing how people create highlights/reflections. I noticed it a few months ago and now I can't stop seeing it everywhere, all of the highlights are circular. I'm probably just a boomer but it's so bleak to me for some reason idk.
No.13781
>>13666The popularity of gachas are another issue since they resulted in psychotic yumes who want to ban all homobait completey. No wonder people think that Hoyoverse is the best, no one else is pandering.
>>13678It's normal to want active fandoms and new things, yeah, fujos just get less so we get scolded more for not wanting to be forever stuck with dead fandoms while everyone else gets new shows. Most of what you listed are obscure and never reached the height of older fandoms.
>>13672Kek I only see this with male characters too, I never see anyone trying to call a female character aroace to stop them from being shipped. The Project Hail Mary guy is currently the biggest one I'm seeing, but I've been seeing this trend in fandoms for a long time now. Most of it is definitely moralfagging or a way to claim the guy is some queer identity while also talking about how they don't want him homo shipped (het is ok though).
No.13783
>>13781>Most of what you listed are obscure and never reached the height of older fandomsTo be fair what is someone supposed to do if they want something to not be obscure?
No.13784
>>13783Samefag but seriously, I don't get the "not enough fans" deal. How exactly do do you think something becomes mainstream? Do you think fans manifest from the air? They get popular because people read something obscure, recommend that obscure thing to others who share it, and boost it up.
The problem is that the people willing to do that has gone down immensely as anime has gotten more popular. When it was obscure in its entirety, people were more willing to watch obscure things and they were more likely to try things thst weren't guarantees.
No.13785
>>13783>>13784Nowadays? Nothing. It was different in the days when there were less anime and you had forums. It was normal for fujos to watch older shows and you could even get lucky and have decent writers pick up a show and write for a ship. That doesn't happen now because there's no dedicated spaces to talk about older shows, it's all algorithms. You can't build a fandom from the ground up anymore when there's no spaces for other fans to find each other. We can complain about the kids these days, but most fans now grew up on this type of social media. We're the outliers. People don't want to get into less popular things when they're always watching the numbers on social media. People don't even want to write fanfiction unless they have a guaranteed huge audience, which is why you see more AI fics from people who haven't even consumed the canon material, people putting fics into chatgpt to "read" them, people only watching shows from TikTok clips, and also the rise of self-insert y/n fics being more popular than m/m.
No.13786
>>13781>It's normal to want active fandoms and new things, yeah, fujos just get less so we get scolded more for not wanting to be forever stuck with dead fandoms while everyone else gets new shows. Most of what you listed are obscure and never reached the height of older fandoms.Naruto is always the gold standard people keep calling back to, so isn't the actual main difference the shorter length of shonen manga compared to before? If JJK or Demon Slayer were still running, the fandoms wouldn't have died down as much. Gintama was another very long running fujo favorite whose anime ended in 2021 (not counting the recent spinoff). I doubt we're ever going to get something on those levels again, authors today seem to care more about their health and avoiding burnout now. The model of releasing important arcs as movies has also been negative for fandoms as the wait time is higher for less story, in the past people would be less likely to jump fandoms during a waiting period but now it's easier for the casual fans to get sucked in to something else.
No.13793
Where did all the actual pretty bishounen anime men go? I miss when m/m ships were actually attractive.
No.13799
>>13793Are you including ikemen into this group or are you saying they're a part of the problem?
No.13800
>>13793They're too obscure so they ceased to exist.
No.13804
>>13801I think I get what you mean. Looking through their content, they do a lot of violence / monsters and have character relationships that would border on dubcon in most cases but it has this weird offputting feeling of like what the modern fujozoomer thinks "toxic yaoi" is like. Characters just fight occasionally, they act aggresive sometimes but then they go back to being lovey dovey or it's all totally consented 'aggresion', their way of drawing old men is more so like the way someone would jump out and say "erm i'll never draw minors i'm not a pedophile" kind of way rather than being earnest in their taste.
I've seen a lot of these types pop up, that say they like "dark themes" and the dark themes is just being a little edgy with blood and death and some occasional violence and pseudo-forced sex but as soon as you mention RAPE in front of them they pussy out.
No.13806
>>13793You have to give examples of what you mean because there are still plenty of pretty anime men around, especially since Cnovels took off. When people say this kind of thing sometimes it seems to just mean that the bishonen guys coming out just aren't their personal type / they don't like the art style / whatever.
There is definitely more of people shipping non conventionally attractive characters especially from western shit so it probably makes things seem skewed.
No.13808
>>13756Yeah it's funny. I know women that usually act and sound 100% like men online and even in real life. Not in a bad way, just in a "cool dude" way. The literally only reason for why I assumed they're women before meeting them was the fact that they shipped or explored some characters' minds and perception of the world. Actually, one of the main reasons for shipping among women seems to be the additional layer of vulnerability and character exploration that comes with shipping. People act different when they're with a lover and it reveals a side of them that is usually inactive when they engage with normal acquaintances or fight actual enemies.
I don't dare to make guesses as to why it works that way. But while there are some rare exceptions of men that do that too, most of the time you can be fucking sure that someone who explores a character's inner conflicts or love affairs is indeed a woman. Romantic side plots written by men usually boil down to "He is a man, she's a hot woman, so they fucked. Happy end".
No.13809
>>13776Powerlevel fuckery was the reason for why I abandoned the Fate fandom for ages in the past, since it was all they could ever talk and argue about ("Can Shiki kill servants?" became a meme for a reason). I am glad that F/Z attracted so many fujos. Discussing Fate related anime and LNs is so much better now and every character gets a shitton of art and the writing for male characters that aren't MC massively improved as well.
And no I have no idea what's interesting about this shit, especially for series without powerlevels. Even if a series HAS powerlevels is vain to discuss is because there isn't a SINGLE one that is ever consistent with it. In the end rules are always bent and broken to assure that the guy who's supposed to win wins whenever the plot demands it. It's usually just used to signify how super threatening the newest villain is and to make someone job.
No.13810
>>13793Unironically my fault, I am obsessed with scary non-human gays, scars, gap moe and buff and/or old weirdos and throw my money at merch of them.
But aren't there still enough bishounen series airing? There are at least three right now AFAIK. The Kyoani show, World is Dancing, Samurai Troopers s2 and probably 3-5 other series that I don't know about (not counting kids and overly cute art styles like NGWK and Jadugaar). Nippon Sangoku, Witch Hat Atelier and a bunch of other anime from last season were also starring pretty dudes.
No.13815
>>13809I always assumed that powerleveling is the weeb male version of sports autism that normie males have.
No.13818
>pick up series based on JP/KR/CH/TH tweets pointing at how shippable characters are
>holy fuck i love this
>there's literally nobody english speaking talking about it save for a couple teenagers posting live reactions to chapters that are vague as fuck and cut off suddenly
>find a tweet that says they're going to make a discord server for it
>user is an adult and has another series i like as their pfp
>mite b gud
>bookmark and check back two weeks later
>no update on the tweet
>ok i'll scroll their tweets for the last week i guess
>ENDLESS CHILD GORE SOB STORIES AND OLD MEN IN HOSPITAL BEDS PLEASE DONATE NOW
>angry ranting about how only black people can use the word woke
>pls donate pls donate pls donate
Don't think they're worth talking to actually
No.13823
>>13809>And no I have no idea what's interesting about this shit, especially for series without powerlevelsI got the impression that it's because midwit nerds love quantifying anything and everything
They love gameplay loops solely where numbers just go up, they obsess over review scores, they compare sales, and they seethe if anyone dislikes Berserk because it's OBJECTIVELY the best manga ever!!
Discussing the qualities of things takes critical thought and literacy, but a number being higher than another number is absolute (even though they are constantly making things up to justify a powerlevel)
The other nona is right about it being like sports autism, gays play the same number games with pop singers instead
No.13829
>>13818This type of thing always happens to me, it's so hard to find normal english speaking fans
No.13837
I know these are old but the fact that i still see this shit being said by allegedly bl fans in 2026 is exasperating.
You go into reading a romance story, about two men, who are gay, and your first worry is "is the female character there? and is she treated well enough i can self inser- cough i mean i can read it without feeling discomfort?"
They also complain when the female character is a fujo or a friendly neighbor because she needs to be the central character, but yeah this fujo is totally interested in yaoi.
I've been reading bl for decades, and the only instances of bad representation of female characters is literally where she is the villain, and that's rare in bl manga, it's always another dude who is the antagonist.
Should bl never have female characters if they are antagonistic? i feel like these people are just yumes who can't help but feel cucked out when they read yaoi.
They never ask the same conditions for otome or shoujo manga, like both shoujo and otome games have almost no secondary female characters, it's just heroines with barely a personality.
>5 minutes of screen time
5 minutes of screen time or even less can leave a LASTING impression on people, yes, that's why presentation it's so important for characters.
Also they never name the characters, like actually name the examples, i bet they never name those female characters because they know that if they were to name them, people would immediately call them out and explain why the character is unpopular.
Black magician girl from yu gi oh has literally no words spoken yet she is a super pupolar character, so is Miku Hatsune, why is it so different for women to like a male character based on design and impressions and make up a story on them just like they end up stanning Miku and Teto who are just mascots?
No.13839
>>13837I'm a serial minor character fixator and I do it for both male and female characters, however for the almond to activate over a female character she has to have a genuinely cool/cute design with little to no fanservice and not be a love interest to a guy. This is my criteria for fave female characters in general and you'd be surprised how many get struck out by these two categories alone. If it's a main character I'll also need them to get to do plot relevant stuff without being sidelined in favour of a guy (common with shonen heroines) but extremely minor characters don't need much other than to look cool and have the hint of a neat concept.
I'm also less likely to become fixated if there's no shipping options (F/F in the case of girls). That's the difference between 'character I just want to draw fan art of' and 'character I will write fic about'. I will say that it's easy to find obscure girls who are cute, but interesting quirks/personalities are less common, especially in gachashit, where blandness is default. It's almost easier when you have a total blank slate such as a cute generic NPC Pokemon Trainer class design, then the sandbox is yours.
No.13853
>>13786Despite its popularity in Japan Demon Slayer never got big with fujos, or even a lot of fish period compared to JJK. I think Naruto wound up being an exception with how it still has a ton of fans who get into it or oldfags who still have nostalgia for it, while most fans also seem to ignore Boruto completely.
>>13810Half of those shows don't really have big fandoms with fujos outside of Japan, except maybe Witch Hat Atelier.